Sep 6 • General
Back-to-School Scripts for Vegan Parents: What to Say to Teachers, Coaches, Friends & Family
Back-to-school season is exciting, but let’s be real — it can also feel like running an obstacle course when you’re raising vegan kids. New teachers, new routines, birthday parties, sports snacks… and endless conversations where you find yourself explaining (again) what your child eats, what they don’t, and how to keep them included without making it a big drama.
Here’s the thing: you don’t need a debate kit in your back pocket. You just need a few calm, clear scripts ready to go. That way you’re not scrambling for words in the moment, and you don’t feel like you have to justify your parenting choices to every teacher, coach, or curious grandma.
Use these as-is, tweak them to your style, or even copy/paste them into a text or email. They work.
**1. Teachers & School Staff**
Quick intro email:“Hi [Name], just a quick note about [Child]. We’re plant-based. For any class tastings or snacks, we’ll provide a swap. If you’re unsure, a quick text with a label photo works great. Thanks for helping us keep it easy.”
Snack/treat reminder:
“We skip meat, fish, eggs, and dairy, but [Child] eats fruits, veggies, grains, beans, tofu, nuts/seeds, and plant milks. If you’re planning a class treat, we’ll always send a swap so they don’t miss out.”
Cooking/science activities:
“If food is part of an activity, please let me know so we can send a swap. That way [Child] can join in fully.”
**2. Coaches & After-School Activities**
Team snacks:“
We pack [Child]’s snacks since we skip dairy/eggs/meat. If you want something that works for everyone, fruit or pretzels are perfect.”
Hydration:“We bring our own drinks. Just water refills needed.”
**3. Birthday Parties & Playdates**
Host parent note:
“We’re plant-based, so [Child] will bring their own cupcake/snack. Please don’t stress — they’ll be thrilled just to join in.”
Practicing with your child:“If someone offers you something that isn’t vegan, just smile and say, ‘No thanks, I brought my own.’”
Kid-to-kid explanation:“We don’t eat animals. We eat plants instead — like beans, tofu, pasta, and fruit. Want to trade snacks?”
**4. Family & Holidays**
Gatherings:
“We’ll bring a main and a dessert. Please don’t worry about making anything extra — fruit and veggies on the side are perfect.”
When someone pushes food:
“Thanks for offering, but we don’t eat that. We’re all set.” (Repeat once, calmly. Then move on.)
**5. Doctors & Health Professionals**
Nutrition questions:
“We use B12, choose fortified calcium sources, include omega-3s, and our doctor monitors growth.”
Protein doubts:
“We anchor meals with beans, tofu, soy milk, grains, nuts, and seeds. Growth and energy are right on track.”
**6. Random Curiosity or Criticism**
Other parents:“We’ve got a plan that works for us. Happy to share if you’d like.”
Grandparents:“We know it’s new, but it’s important to us. Thanks for helping keep it simple.”
Your child asking ‘why’:
“Different families eat different things. In our family, we choose foods that are kind to animals, healthy for our bodies, and good for the planet.”
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Why These Work -->
They’re short. They’re calm. They don’t invite arguments. You’re setting boundaries without being defensive, and your kid learns from you that this can all be handled with ease.
Back-to-school doesn’t have to feel like a battle!! A few go-to phrases keep the focus where it belongs--on your child being happy, healthy, and included.
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Back-to-School Scripts for Vegan Parents: What to Say to Teachers, Coaches, Friends & Family
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