We’re taught to see growth as a straight line — a climb, a sequence, a story that makes sense in order. But life rarely cooperates with that kind of symmetry. Progress doesn’t move neatly from one achievement to the next. It doubles back, loops sideways, and sometimes pauses entirely to remind us we’re not in control of the timeline.
The Myth of the Line
Linear progress is comforting because it looks measurable. You can plot it, track it, prove it. But when your path starts to zigzag — when success shows up as confusion, or when one chapter ends before the next begins — it feels like failure. It isn’t. It’s evidence that you’re still in motion. Growth curves, not climbs.
The line was never straight. It only looked that way in hindsight.
Learning from Detours
Detours are how the mind gathers depth. You can’t develop perspective without distance, and you can’t build resilience without resistance. Every apparent setback — the client who backed out, the plan that stalled, the silence after you shared something important — is an inflection point in disguise.
The most interesting people you’ll ever meet didn’t move from A to B. They moved from A to “What the hell just happened?” to B-and-a-half — and they built something better because of it.
The Real Work
The art of non-linear progress is learning to hold two truths at once:
- You’re not where you thought you’d be.
- You’re exactly where you need to be to learn what’s next.
That tension — between expectation and evolution — is where wisdom forms. It’s the pause where you start listening instead of forcing.
When you stop fighting the curve and start following it, the frustration fades. You begin to see the pattern inside the chaos — the lesson that couldn’t have emerged any other way.
Today’s Action
Look back over the last year and find one moment that didn’t go “according to plan.” Ask yourself: What did that detour teach me that success never could have?
Write it down. That’s not lost time — it’s earned experience.
The path isn’t supposed to be straight. It’s supposed to be yours.
— Jeff