Headline: Is your "Someday" bucket getting a little too full?
I’ve been looking at my own travel notes lately, and I realized something. Most of us don't have a "lack of ideas" problem.
We have a "Clarity Gap."
It’s that space between having a beautiful destination in mind and actually feeling ready to hit the "Confirm" button. We collect the brochures, we join the groups (like this one!), and we look at the photos... but when it comes to taking that next inch of progress, something makes us pause.
I see this all the time, and I've felt it too.
Sometimes the pause is because:
- The thought of navigating a new place solo feels heavier than it did yesterday.
- The "logistics noise" (flights, insurance, safety) starts to drown out the excitement.
- Or, honestly, it’s just the fear of finally committing to a dream and worrying it won't be what we hoped.
In our paid community, The Collective, we spend our time closing that gap—moving from "thinking about it" to "ready for it" with actual systems and vetted trips. It’s where we move past the hesitation.
But before we even talk about steps, I want to hold up a mirror to that hesitation. Because you can’t move past a barrier until you name it.
👇 The "One Step" Question: If you had to put a name to it, what is the one thing that holds you back from moving a trip from your "Someday" list to your "Calendar"?
(Is it the solo factor? The safety "what-ifs"? Or just not knowing where to start? No right or wrong answers here—just looking for clarity.)