Step 5 of the Off-Duty Reset.
Shift.
The conscious switch from the work identity to the home identity.
After enough years, the job stops being what you do and starts being who you are. When the person is the job, there’s no version of you left to come home to.
Pick a physical cue. Touch the steering wheel. Take off the watch. Same cue, every shift. You are not the uniform anymore. You are the partner, the parent, the person.
That’s the Off-Duty Reset. Breath. Scan. Release. Anchor. Shift. Run it for thirty days. DM me what changes.