Before any 1:1: please read the relevant post/doc and send me two bullets you want to solve. This keeps us focused, respects family time, and often resolves things within the community.
As for me and my house, we will serve the Lord—by the Lord of Scripture.
Modes I’ll use here
- Silence: I pause → pray → refrain when speech won’t edify.
- Whisper: private care, Scripture, practical helps (shared publicly when appropriate).
- Shout: rare—gospel essentials or clear harm, spoken with meekness and truth.
Posting filter: true • necessary • edifying • peaceable. If any fail, I pass.I don’t debate hot-button topics here. Prayer requests? DM/email is fine. Advice? Please use group Q&A or book a consult.
Value, Calling, and Boundaries
“Value” has two perspectives:
- Creation (what I produce), and
- Application (how it’s distributed, used, and sustained).
Healthy exchange is value for value. When there’s no exchange, it’s charity. Lately my family has been quietly funding my extra time. With AUDHD, stopping the work would feel like disobedience; but unlimited access is unfair to them and enabling for others. So, with love:
- Open & free: lessons, resources, and group Q&A (please post there, not DMs).
- Structured help: book a consult (30 or 60 min) or an Offering slot (pay-what-you-can, limited)
- If funds are tight: use group Q&A—I made it for you.
My aim is relationship balance—not a barista wage, and not a paywall. Thanks for honoring these guardrails so I can keep serving well along with manage my increasing health challenges.
Note: If you’ve walked in relationship balance, thank you—this isn’t aimed at you. If any of this stirs you, it isn’t personal; it’s me honoring my wife, my daughter, and this season.“I also keep a few quiet pastoral slots each month as I’m led.”