I heard from a friend today who has problems with her son always taking his girlfriend back, and she takes advantage of him, IHO. She's kept quiet for the most part, but it is killing her because he has been doing so well when she is gone. He has two children from this woman, but she just doesn't take care of them, so he does. "We do what we can, but he has to figure it out too. We're not always going to be here," she says. What do you think I should do? I listen, but I really don't want to advise in case I am wrong! It'd be different if it were a client and not a family or friend.