Mar 29 (edited) • Love Life Blog
A Breakfast Story That Perfectly That Explains Manifestation in Love
A friend of mine told me this story the other day, and I haven't stopped thinking about it since, because it perfectly explains why so many people struggle to manifest the love life they actually want.
She was telling me about her two daughters.
One morning, she asked them what they wanted for breakfast. The first one didn't hesitate.
"I want scrambled eggs on buttery toast, with a bit of tomato sauce and a glass of orange juice."
She was clear, specific, with no hesitation or confusion.
The second one just said:
"I don't want eggs. I don't like them."
So my friend made breakfast.
The first daughter was absolutely thrilled. Exactly what she asked for. Full of big smiles and thanking her mum.
The second daughter was given toast and orange juice… and immediately started crying.
"I don't want this!"
My friend was understandably confused. "Okay… what do you want then?"
"I don't know. I just don't want this."
The next day, it was a Saturday, no school or work, so they went out for breakfast.
The first daughter ordered exactly what she wanted again.
But this time, the second one actually chose something.
"I'll have pancakes with strawberries and cream… and a strawberry milkshake."
My friend looked said she just looked at her in amazement… a strawberry milkshake?! Since when do you like those? You always have vanilla or chocolate at home!
And that's when it hit her. It wasn't that her daughter was difficult. She just hadn't been clear on what she DID want.
When my friend told me this, I immediately thought.., this is literally what I see every single day in this community.
People are so clear on what they don't want:
• "I don't want to be ghosted"
• "I don't want another toxic relationship"
• "I don't want someone emotionally unavailable"
But when it comes to what they do want?
It's vague. It's unsure. It's "I don't know… just not that."
And then they wonder why they keep getting relationships that feel… off. Not terrible. But not right either.
Here’s The Hard Truth (But You Need It)
You can't manifest a clear outcome from unclear energy.
Your brain, especially your Reticular Activating System (RAS) needs direction. It's literally designed to filter your reality based on what you focus on. If your focus is:
• avoiding pain
• not repeating the past
• "anything but that"
…you'll stay stuck noticing what's wrong, instead of moving towards what's actually right for you.
You're not doing it wrong. You're just doing what that second daughter did.
You're saying: "I don't want eggs…"
And life is replying: "Okay… here's some toast."
Technically not what you didn't want… but also not what you truly desired.
The Shift That Changes Everything was the moment that daughter said; "I want pancakes, strawberries and cream, and a strawberry milkshake."… Everything changed.
That is manifestation 🌟
Clarity. Decision. Ownership.
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A Breakfast Story That Perfectly That Explains Manifestation in Love
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