One of the things I love most about this work is watching people discover that what they thought was them โ was never really them at all. It was just a pattern their nervous system had been running. And patterns can be released.
This is one of my favorite stories. ๐ฟ
She couldn't speak above a whisper. Couldn't turn in a job application. Couldn't let herself be seen. This is what changed. ๐ฟ
"I was so shy I could barely speak. I wanted to make friends, to get a job, to have a life โ but my nervousness was so overwhelming I couldn't even turn in a job application. I was shut down. Almost entirely. Watching life happen around me while I stayed frozen on the edges of it.
I didn't understand why I was like this. I just knew I couldn't seem to change no matter how hard I tried.
After working with Jackie, we found what was actually running underneath all of it. A belief so deep I didn't even know I was carrying it:
They will see me. And they won't like what they find. Because I'm not worthy of anything.
Once that was named โ once we went to the root of it โ everything began to shift.
I have a job now. I'm making friends. I'm taking steps I never thought I'd be able to take. I'm not invisible anymore.
I'm just getting started."
โ Anonymous ๐ฟ
If something has been running quietly in the background of your life โ keeping you small, keeping you frozen โ we can find it. And we can release it.