Life doesn't always go as planned. There are moments that shake us to the core—loss, uncertainty, rejection, burnout, or simply the weight of daily struggles. As the author of Life is a Special Event, beautifully reminds me, every challenge is also an invitation—to reflect, grow, and rise. We must honour our emotions instead of burying them. Feeling lost, sad, or overwhelmed doesn’t make you weak—it makes you human. Give yourself permission to feel everything. As I always say, "Being present with yourself is the greatest act of courage." Hard times often trigger a victim mindset. And I invited myself to reframe the question. Instead of “Why is this happening to me?” Ask, “What is this moment asking of me?” This shift gives me power. It transforms obstacles into opportunities and pain into purpose. In difficult times, self-leadership means showing up for yourself every single day. This might look like: - Keeping a consistent morning routine - Writing in a gratitude journey - Saying “no” to what drains your energy - Saying “yes” to what aligns with your values. - Even small, intentional acts can anchor you during a storm. As I always say “You were born worthy, whole, and enough. Hard times do not define you—they refine you.” So take a deep breath. Be kind to yourself. And remember: you are the author of your story—and the next chapter can be beautiful.