Feb 17 • General discussion
Social media vs Real life 🤔
So even though I have lost 8lbs and still very much a curvy woman I cant stop looking at the figures of these social media influencers and love island ladies (sorry 🙈) and thinking I should look like that only being 33.
I then stop myself and think hang on. Most of them don't have standard 9-5 desk jobs and also work and second job. They can nip and go to the gym when they like. Most don't have children. or the ones who have "lost weight" have paid for the injections privately. Or have the fincial freedom to look the way they do. If thats work or otherwise.Or some very lucky ones who naturally are slim.
I haven't always been a bigger lady ,prior to kids I was a toned slim size 6 to 8. Now a curvy waist, fat arse , huge tits and double chins so big they would make everest jealous.
I know I'm not "insta perfect" nor will I ever be some of these woman are out of this world stunning physically. But you can look insta perfect and commercially beautiful but does that mean you can sit down with them and also have a true and meaningful conversation with them? Some yes some no.
So many people dismiss others because of the way they look but if people only gave "none perfect looking" people the chance to even convers you may find you have some of the best conversations ever and you never know you could find out someone os for you not just based on looks.
Just think about this next time you think nope not my cup of tea.
Xx
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Social media vs Real life 🤔
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