I know it says we should forgive those who hurt us because it’s more for ourself than the other person. But how do you do that? There is a prayer that I read in “My Pocket Prayerbook” (the prayer: An Act of love), and in there prayer it says “I forgive all those who have injured me, and ask pardon of all whom I have injured”. I feel a bit ashamed because there are some people I can’t think of forgiving, even if it’s just saying “I forgive you” in my head. So how does someone truly forgives someone else without feeling that in doing so, that other person got their way?