đż Make a Calming Herb Bouquet
Because your house has been through enough.
Letâs be honest. Houses absorb everything. Bad moods. Weird conversations. That one argument that âwasnât an argument.â Too much news. Too many people. Not enough naps.
If your home feels a little on edge, itâs not haunted. Itâs just tired.
Enter: the calming herb bouquet.
No ceremony. No rules. No pretending you live in a magazine spread. Just herbs in a vase doing their quiet, useful thing.
What this bouquet is actually for
This bouquet is for when:
Everyone is slightly irritated and no one knows why
The house feels noisy even when itâs quiet
You want calm without making a big production out of it
It helps take the edge off. Like herbal background noise, but pleasant.
The herbs (donât overthink this)
Use what you like. This is not a purity test.
Sage â smells clean and grounded
Lavender â classic calm without trying too hard
Rosemary â fresh, steady, and a little bossy
Mint â brightens the mood immediately
Lemon balm or thyme â softens everything so it plays well together
If you only have three of these, congratulations. Thatâs still a bouquet.
How to make it
Rinse the herbs. Dirt belongs outside.
Trim the stems so they fit in a vase without looking annoyed.
Taller herbs in the middle. Softer ones around them.
Add water. Put it somewhere people actually exist.
Youâre done. Thatâs the whole process.
Where it works best
Kitchens where everyone congregates for no reason
Living rooms where people overthink
Entryways where the day follows you inside
Basically anywhere the vibe could use a deep breath.
Why it helps
Herbs smell familiar. Familiar smells tell your brain, âYouâre fine. Sit down.â
Thatâs it. Thatâs the science.
Also, it looks nice. And sometimes that alone improves everyoneâs mood more than a long talk ever could.
Final thought
If your house suddenly feels easier to be in,
and no one can explain why,
good. Thatâs the point.
~Herbalism with Lori