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I wanted to share something small that’s been sitting with me lately. I’ve been noticing how much of my life I’ve spent in “holding it together” mode - pushing through, staying busy, keeping the peace, doing what needs to be done. And only recently have I started realising how much of that was actually my nervous system trying to protect me.
It’s strange how you can go years thinking certain behaviours are just “your personality,” when really they were survival strategies you never had the chance to outgrow. Lately I’ve been trying to slow down enough to actually notice what’s happening in my body instead of overriding it. It’s uncomfortable sometimes, but also kind of freeing. Like I’m meeting parts of myself I didn’t even know were there.
I’m really grateful for this community - it feels like one of the few places where it’s okay to be in the middle of things, not fixed, not polished, just human. If anyone else is in a season of unlearning old survival patterns, I’d love to hear how you’re navigating it.
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