My current Skool challenge is finding my dudes....
Hi, I'm @stu ๐Ÿ‘‹๐Ÿฅณ
(This is step 1 in the classroom)
I love fun. I love dreaming. I love ambitious moon-shot goals. I am silly. I am creative. I work hella-hard. I am positive. My friends say I am crazy. I love people. I love LOVE! ๐Ÿ˜ป๐Ÿคฉโœจ๐Ÿ”ฅ๐Ÿš€โšก๐Ÿ’ฅ๐ŸŒˆ๐ŸŽถ๐ŸŽจ๐ŸŒŸ๐Ÿ’ซ
I have started, run and sold a multi-7 figure business and started 2 multi-six figure bizs. I got the hot wife, the 4 kids, the house blablabla...
And still there is a part of me that for a LONG time was uncharted territory. My inner world. My emotions. And honestly, not being friends with it... wreaked havoc on my life.
I lost LOTS. Lots of things that were very important to me. I lost my two businesses. Lost all my money and credit. Lost a large part of my professional network. Lost my IP. Lost my wife. (Thank goodness didn't lose my kids or health)
I also lost things that, in hindsight, I am happy I did: I lost "security". I lost "stability". I lost the "poisonous apple of apathy". I lost the ability to "blame it" on something or someone else.
And so my journey of getting to know my emotions, uncovering how to feel, coming face to face with hard things, with my past and my pain - it initially wasn't compatible with this guy (๐Ÿ˜ป๐Ÿคฉโœจ๐Ÿ”ฅ๐Ÿš€โšก๐Ÿ’ฅ๐ŸŒˆ๐ŸŽถ๐ŸŽจ๐ŸŒŸ๐Ÿ’ซ)
I didn't want therapy. I wanted change. I wanted back. and I wanted better.
And I did -- without therapy!
And now its like every single one of my passionate emoji parts of me is amplified BECAUSE I have become friends with my emotions, learned how to feel, learned how to experience hard things and face my pain.
And my observation is that so many guys, especially younger guys in their 20s and 30s and 40s - we literally ignore it. Down play it. Especially when "life is good". I know I did.
And so it's actually really hard to engage with guys on Skool on these topics.
MY life literally transformed.
I cannot imagine life without this transformation. With my new team mate, emotions.
And so.
I am literally on a MAN-hunt.
... for men who want to discover their inner world. Make their emojis light up. Activate a new star player on their team. Be a safe space for their key relationships. (home and work)
I am a very ambitious guy. And I can tell u first hand, emotional intelligence is compatible -- and has great ROI for us who are ambitious.
I am definitely appealing to my Goosifiers...
"If you have any information leading to the whereabouts of these MEN..." please contact me.
If not, maybe you have "tips" on how to engage the "not immediately" silly or fun, but real, raw, authentic topics around emotional strength - in other groups -- because right now my group is empty! (well... me and Goosify)
If not, maybe you have "tips" on how to communicate to my ICP better so that my about page converts!
One final thing. The whole "uncover your inner-world" thing is quite a ride. It's crazy. Crazy fun. Really.
It won't hurt. You won't lose who you are, or become boring. In fact, you become more flavorful, more colorful, more juicy, more passionate, more YOU!!!!
Thanks for your help........
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Stuart Kibbe
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My current Skool challenge is finding my dudes....