Folder; *Assumed Nature*
This is something that I wish I knew much earlier. Lend me your ears and thank me later.
Growing up till now, we have assumed the nature of a lot of things.
Things we know deeply and sometimes things we know not so deeply.
Because we have assumed certain things to be of a particular nature
It then impacts their effects on our lives and how we relate to them.
The things we have assumed are numerous but I will touch on just a few.
1) We have assumed small talk to be the automatic nature of everyday conversation.
This is not to say we should assume deep talks to be the nature of everyday conversation
But then what if we did. Then it would definitely impact how we approach our conversation.qith people and what we get out of them
Whether it's deep talk or small talk, the nature we assume are rather arbitrary and socially influenced and enforced.
So while we live in a society, we shouldnt conform blindly to the nature of things because that's how we've known them to be.
Let us be ready to go to the other side. Because it on the other side that we can exercise our agency as humans and engage with life on a grander scale.
NB; The problem of blindly assuming nature of things is that you might never feel motivated to see what the other side might give you.