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DAY 175 a; BAN SMALL TALK
Folder; *Quality Relationship Building*
Why should it take us 5 years to figure out someone?
This is something that might be of interest to a lot of us
We live in a society that constantly favors and pushes small talk
Thus figuring out someone mostly becomes a matter of time and not precision
Imagine if we could on a more approximate probability, figure out someone to a large extent with
1) A couple of sentences
2) Over just a few days of interactions
3) Over coffee
Imagine the amount of uneccessry relationships we would reduce
Imagine the amount of more quality relationships we will form because now
1) We can figure out people more quickly and decide to be with them or not.
This is not to say small talks can't reveal people's nature and quirks but rather in their nature , they are meant to pass time, to prep things up.
So why then do we constantly engage in small talks when the relationship and the quality of it really matters to us?
We need to engage in questions that
1) Reveal the other party's thinking process/nature
2) Reveals the person's worldview
The list goes on
What type of questions do you think can do this job?
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