Proverbs 15:22 GNV
Without counsel, thoughts come to nothing: but in the multitude of counselers there is steadfastness.
I have found this to be true in my own spiritual healing in the last several years: there is the seeking on our part, God's healing which sweeps in when He sees our commitment, and the third aspect of trusting a community.
The trusted advisors are a CRUCIAL aspect of healing. We HAVE to have an outlet to let the pressure out inside us, and, in doing so, we learn that we all have similar issues and it lightens our load.