26d ā¢ š¾ Training Wins & Milestones
š±š¾ Progress Doesnāt Always Mean the Behavior Disappears
When weāre working on a challenging behavior, itās natural to measure success by whether it happened:
Did my dog bark?
Did they pull?
Did they hesitate?
Did they startle?
If the answer is yes, it can feel like the training isnāt working.
But weāre missing an important part of the picture:
How intense was itāand how long did it last?
Imagine a dog who normally sees another dog and:
š Lunges to the end of the leash
š£ļø Barks repeatedly
ā¬ļø Struggles to disengage
ā±ļø Takes several minutes to settle afterward
After some training, that same dog sees another dog and still barksā¦
ā¦but only twice.
They donāt hit the end of the leash.
They can turn back toward their guardian.
And within 20 seconds, theyāre sniffing again.
The barking didnāt disappearābut something absolutely changed.
š§ Behavior Isnāt Just āHappenedā or āDidnāt Happenā
When weāre tracking behavior, we can look at more than its presence or absence.
Consider:
Intensity: How strong was the response?
Duration: How long did it last?
Frequency: How often did it happen?
Recovery: How quickly did your dog return toward their usual behavior afterward?
Distance/Context: Did they handle the trigger under more difficult conditions than before?
That gives us a much richer picture of progress.
š¾ The Same Applies to Other Behaviors
Maybe your dog still pulls toward another dog, but now itās a brief moment of tension instead of dragging you across the sidewalk.
Maybe they still hesitate at the vet door, but walk inside after a few seconds instead of refusing to approach.
Maybe they still startle at a loud noise, but recover and continue sniffing instead of remaining vigilant for the rest of the walk.
Maybe they still bark when someone knocks, but stop after a few barks instead of continuing for several minutes.
Those changes matter.
š āLessā Can Be a Very Big Win
We sometimes set the finish line at:
āMy dog never does this anymore.ā
But especially when weāre working with fear, frustration, excitement, or reactivity, progress may appear much earlier than that.
The behavior may become:
ā¬ļø Less intense
ā±ļø Shorter
š Less frequent
š± Easier to interrupt or redirect
š Followed by faster recovery
Your dog may still be communicating that something is difficult.
Theyāre just having a different response to that difficulty.
And thatās information worth noticing.
š” Change the Question
Instead of only asking:
āDid my dog react?ā
Try asking:
āHow did this reaction compare with what I would have seen a month ago?ā
Sometimes the biggest evidence that your training is working isnāt that the behavior disappeared.
Itās that the dog who once needed 10 minutes to recover now needs two.
Or the dog who barked 20 times now barks three.
Or the dog who couldnāt disengage can now look back at you.
Donāt let the behaviorās presence convince you that nothing has changed.
Reduced intensity is progress.
Shorter duration is progress.
Faster recovery is progress.
And those quieter changes deserve to be celebrated too. šš¾
š¬ Think about something your dog still struggles with. Has it become less intense, shorter, less frequent, or easier to recover fromāeven if it hasnāt completely disappeared yet?
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š±š¾ Progress Doesnāt Always Mean the Behavior Disappears
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