🎂 Birthday Edition — what does the next decade of YOUR soft life look like?

Today's my birthday sis. 🎂 May 9. Another year of building this soft life on faith and honest work — not luck, not shortcuts, not "next month" energy.

So I'm not asking what y'all want for ME today. I'm asking something I wish someone had asked me when I was younger:

Not what's happening this year. The next DECADE. What does the soft life look like for you at the end of it?

What's the home? The income? The peace? The healing? The body? The boundaries you've finally built and stopped apologizing for?

Most of us are too scared to write it down because writing it down makes it real — and real means we have to start. Faith without discipline is just wishing.

I'll go first 👇🏾

🏡 Mortgage paid in full — no landlord on God's earth dictating my peace

💰 Three income streams that don't need me hovering over them

🌿 My own herbs growing — tea, oils, healing — in MY soil

📚 My books on shelves my granddaughters can hold

🤎 A circle of Black women I built up living in their version of this

Drop yours below sis. Speak it. Witness it. Let the women in this circle hold you to it.

We rise together or we don't rise at all.

— Tiffany 🎂

TiffyTime

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