Holding onto Hurt and Anger is a protective mechanism, yet it only HURTS YOU! 😩 Physically, mentally, emotionally, and even spiritually. ACIM says, "nothing outside yourself can hurt you, or disturb your peace or upset you in any way." 😮 And, you also get to create peace and love from within. Let's get real. Everyone needs a bit of help sometimes letting go. So are you happy being angry, alone, frustrated, anxious? 🙅‍♂️🙅‍♀️ Then reach out or start using the tools in the classroom and I will help you clear: 😡 the anger 😱 the fear & anxiety 💔 the heartbreak. Now's the time.

Or can sharing experiences create a lasting connection? In other words, sharing with statements, and not by asking questions which make her feel like she's on a job interview. I don't think women really enjoy the "Girlfriend Wanted" questions that many guys ask in order to get to know her better. Sharing experiences, and then once comfort and trust are built upon and established, then perhaps even sharing feelings, may perhaps create a profound connection. Maybe this is only possible with the rare girl who hasn't been spoiled by cultural programming, friends, social media, or too much validation. Feel free to share in the comments down below. Having said that, I had a potential lady friend ask me some questions, but that's different, I suppose. Or is it?

Was this a creative thought that I had? In the back of my mind I was looking at the problem that most guys have about the fear of rejection, and how to solve it. The thought occurred to me that instead of fearing rejection, we could take that fear and evaporate it, figuratively speaking. How? By turning the situation around by calling it something else. Instead of some girl or woman who is rejecting you or me, we could reframe that and say that she is actually disqualifying herself as not being "worthy" to be our girlfriend. Or the fact that she is not a good match for you. OR she is incompatible and out of harmony with your lifestyle and values. Or the timing is wrong. These are just a few ways that the Universe could be telling us that there is someone better waiting for you down the road. These are a few points to consider as you navigate the 21st Century dating reality. The more women or girls who disqualify themselves, the closer you come to finding that very special one! This new way of thinking, or mindset, can help us realize that no matter what happens, any positive or negative interaction doesn’t have to affect our value or our worth. We just need to be patient with ourselves, and also flexible enough to understand. Feel free to disagree. It's just an opinion, I'm not an expert. But I thought it was an interesting thought that I had, and I just wanted to share it! Agree? Disagree?

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Could you communicate better? What is your body language telling the person you are with? What's the first impression you give off? What if we held a virtual dating event where you could practice dating? Now, This event wouldn't be about "changing yourself" to fit other people's opinions. After all, I come across as loud and obnoxious to many introverts- yet I wouldn't shift that for anything, as my person needs to like that about me. However, if you know you feel nervous, awkward, or have hesitations with talking on a date, this could be a great opportunity for you! General idea= have speed dating online. After each date you would fill out a quick and easy form about the person you met with (and they to you.). I will send you responses the next day. I want to make sure I would have enough interest to hold an event like this. Are you in? Also, leave me a DM or comment below! What do you think would be valuable feedback (for self or others?)