What To Do If Your Child Meets An Online Predator

This is one of those things we never want to think about—but knowing what to do before it happens can make all the difference. If your child ever comes across an online predator, acting fast and staying calm is key.

Here’s what you need to know.

Sometimes, the signs are subtle. Maybe your child suddenly becomes super secretive about their online life or seems upset after being on their phone.

Have they started receiving gifts or money from someone they’ve never met?

Are they chatting with an older person who seems a little too interested in them?

These are big warning signs that something isn’t right.

Have The Conversation!

Don't worry about "invading their privacy" or being seen as over protective

If you Mom or Dad gut feeling is something is wrong...something is wrong.

Let you child know they are not in trouble and they are safe.

Common predator attack techniques are to use the fear of being in legal trouble for sending pics or threatening their safety to isolate them and stop them from getting help.

Hopefully, nothing is going on but be ready for them to tell you the truth.

Don't freak out or get angry at them.
Remain calm and let them talk.
What to Do Right Away

First, take a deep breath. Your child needs to know they’re not in trouble, and they can trust you. Stay calm, listen, and let them talk.

Next, preserve any evidence—screenshots, messages, anything that shows what’s been happening. This could be important if you need to report it.

Then, block the person immediately and report them to the app or platform where the contact happened. Most sites take these reports seriously and have steps in place to deal with them.

If you feel like the situation is serious—like someone is trying to meet up with your child or is threatening them—don’t hesitate to contact law enforcement.

They have teams that specialize in handling these situations.

**Getting Support**

Even if the situation is resolved, your child might still feel scared, confused, or even guilty. Reassure them that this is not their fault. Consider talking to a counselor who understands online safety and can help them process everything.

**You’re Not Alone**

No parent has all the answers, and let’s be honest—keeping up with all this tech stuff can feel overwhelming. That’s why I created Cyber Safe Families, a private group where you can get real, practical help without feeling lost.

You’ve got this, and I’m here to help.

Det. Mike

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