In Scripture, we find three distinctly divine purposes for marriage.
1️⃣ To reflect the fullness of the image of God, marriage is meant to image something beyond itself — relational, covenantal, and life-giving. (Genesis 1:26-28)
2️⃣ To be a testimony to the gospel, in the faithful life of husband and wife, the self-giving love of Christ is meant to be seen, not merely spoken. (Ephesians 5:22-33)
3️⃣ To carry God’s legacy forward, through nurture and the raising of children in faith, marriage participates in God’s ongoing work in the world. (Malachi 2:15)
Every other aspect of marriage — intimacy, roles, commitment, boundaries, and even conflict — is grounded in these three purposes. When these are rightly understood, they give us a blueprint for thinking about the whole of marriage, both theologically and practically.
In the coming posts, I’ll explore each of these purposes more deeply — what they mean biblically, how they have been understood in Christian tradition, and how they shape healthy, faithful marriages today.
For now, I’d love to hear your thoughts:
👉 Which of these purposes (if any) do you find most emphasized in your church or context?
👉 Which do you think is most often misunderstood or neglected?