Ive been sitting with this question and realized something..I don't remember signing up, the day the time the moment that I agreed but somehow as I self reflect it became so clear that I indeed not only made the agreement...I was all in. And I gave it my all--my dreams, my needs my wants my hopes and dreams. Gave them labels and filed them away--"not now" "one day when..." thats selfish" and "when everyone is good". It's true what they say, "practice makes perfect" so I practiced everyday, shrinking not needing and delightfully giving myself away.The spellbinding dance of my complicity had begun.