Just dropped a new tool in the Parents’ Tools & Scripts classroom:
Nothing To Lose: What Your Athlete Actually Owns
Most kids play tight because they think they can “lose everything” in one bad game:
Spot on the team
Ice time
Coach’s opinion
Your approval
This 2‑minute pre‑game script helps your athlete see the truth:
They don’t own any of that.
They only own how hard they compete, how fast they reset, and how they talk to themselves.
Inside the lesson you’ll get:
A word‑for‑word script you can literally read to your athlete
A simple “two column” exercise:
Stuff I think I own vs Stuff I actually own
One game‑day line they can take onto the ice:
“I don’t own the result. I own my compete, my reset, and my next shift.”
Your challenge this week:
Run the script with your athlete before ONE game.
After the game, ask:
“Did that line help you play any differently?”
Come back to this post and share:
What your athlete said they were afraid of losing
What you noticed (even if it was small)
Get the lesson inside the classroom at the top of this page:
👉 Parents’ Tools & Scripts → Nothing To Lose: What Your Athlete Actually Owns
We’re not trying to raise kids who play scared of losing.
We’re building athletes who know exactly what’s theirs to control.