Things they say that sound reasonable to outsiders
One of the hardest parts of coercive control is that the words often sound fine on the surface. It's the pattern, the context, the history that makes them a weapon.
Drop yours below. Let's build a list. Sometimes just seeing it named out loud is validating.
I'll start:
"I just want what's best for the kids."
(Said right before or after doing something that's clearly not best for the kids.)
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Rae Hart
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Things they say that sound reasonable to outsiders
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