One of the biggest myths I hear from parents is: β "Every child should be potty trained by age 3."
The truth?
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Children become bathroom independent at different agesβand that's especially true for many autistic children and children with developmental disabilities.
Bathroom independence isn't just about using the toilet. It's a combination of many different skills, including:
β’ Recognizing the need to go
β’ Walking to the bathroom
β’ Pulling clothing up and down
β’ Sitting or standing appropriately
β’ Wiping
β’ Flushing
β’ Washing hands
β’ Tolerating the sensory experience of the bathroom
For some children, these skills come together quickly. For others, they develop one step at a time. And that's okay.
π Instead of asking, "Why isn't my child potty trained yet?"
Try asking: π "What's the next bathroom skill my child is ready to learn?"
That small shift can completely change how you approach teaching independence.
π I'd love to hear from you.
What's been the biggest challenge in your child's potty training journey?