Think about it. A thermostat holds the room at one temperature. If it gets too hot or too cold, it fixes it and goes back to normal.
Your mind does the same thing with how you see yourself.
If deep down you think "I blend in," your mind will keep pulling you back to blending in. Even if you try to change.
That's why willpower alone doesn't work.
In the Style Empowerment Society, I help you reset that setting. From the inside. So the change actually sticks.