One of the hardest things I’ve seen is families in the ICU trying to guess what their loved one “would’ve wanted.”
Nobody wrote anything down.
Nobody had the conversation.
Everybody is stressed, scared, and convinced they’re the one who’s right.
Advance directives are not about “giving up.”
They’re about not making people who love you argue under fluorescent lights.
Finish this sentence in the comments:
“If I couldn’t speak for myself, I would want my people to know that I .”