Oct '25 (edited) • 📌 Start Here
🛑READ THIS FIRST🛑 Welcome To The Locker Room Library!
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Who I Am
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I’m a career dancer of 19 years, and I started this community to build a place for everything stripper-related — a living library of wisdom that we can all contribute to.
I’ve been dancing full-time since 2006, with small breaks here and there — mostly in high-end nightclub vibe clubs, gentlemen’s clubs, and dive bars. I’ve done after-parties, dated rich men in real life with allowances, and learned a lot along the way.
As this community grows, I’ll share more of my story and the real situations I’ve gotten myself into over the years — the good, the bad, and the scary. What we’re missing in this industry are real stories and real advice from real people.
There’s too big of a gap between us. We need a space where we can be ourselves with no outsiders watching — that’s why there are security measures to get in here.
This is only for US.
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Our Goal
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Our goal is to be the premier hub for stripper resources — a place to exchange information and learn from one another to make our industry and community stronger, smarter, and more intentional.
Everything here is:
💎 Sourced by us
💎 Compiled by us
💎 Designed to grow with us
We’re here to:
🔥 Raise our standards and expectations
🔥 Strive for more
🔥 Maintain balance between life and work
🔥 Think about our futures with purpose
🔥 Protect our peace and sanity
🔥 Maximize growth and finances
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Finding the Right Club
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Once you find the right club for you (which I and others can help with), keeping a positive attitude and happy persona, tailoring your look to your clientele, and learning how to deal with different types of clients — and co-workers — will transform your whole experience.
When you’re confident:
✨ Other dancers feel it
✨ The energy shifts
✨ The club becomes full of confident women
✨ Clients pick up on that and want to come back
That’s how you build loyal regulars — not for the club, but for you, your friends, and ultimately your bank account.
You catch more flies with honey than shit. Be nice.
Radiate fun and confidence — it’s contagious.
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The Real Goal
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We’re going to master how to actually fake it until we make it — learning how to keep your head in the game, no matter what’s going on outside the club.
To not let personal feelings or situations mess with the bag.
You’ll learn:
💵 What not to say
💵 How to give clients a positive experience
💵 How to make more money while keeping your boundaries
Having a positive experience will lead to more money in your pocket, which is the ONLY point of working in the strip club.
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Boundaries and Balance
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You won’t always like your clients — sometimes, not at all. That’s fine.
We’re not paid to like them; we’re paid to show them a good time, even if we’re not having one.
If you ever end up in a situation you don’t want to be in:
🛑 Remember, you have free will
🛑 Maintain your boundaries
🛑 Leave politely and confidently
🛑 Let another girl try if she wants
🛑 Give a heads-up if something feels off
We’ll learn how to:
💬 Set and enforce boundaries
💬 Let go after negative interactions
💬 Get out of our own heads when things are bothering us
💬 Recognize when it’s time to call it a night (or call it quits)
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What You’ll Find Here
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I’ve put together a bunch of interactive posts for you — spaces to read, share your own stories, give advice, or just talk some shit.
Here’s a taste of what’s inside:
📚 Club Politics — working with others, unspoken rules, fees, and why things are the way they are
📚 General Safety — on shift, after hours, at home, on the road; background checks, personal privacy protection, and scripts to deflect personal questions
📚 Travel Dancing — event dates, seasonal spots, weather tips, travel clubs, lodging, packing lists, and what to expect
📚 Being Under the Influence — navigating customers (and yourself) in those situations
📚 Taxes — info, resources, and accountants who get it
📚 Club Types — Dive, Nightclub, Gentlemen’s, Urban; how to tailor your look, energy, and money-making strategy for each
📚 Dancer vs. Dancer — working with co-workers, avoiding drama, forming alliances, working in teams, avoiding the wrong people
📚 Bad Customers — handling aggressive, grabby, or negative guests, spotting stalkers, and recovering from negative interactions
📚 Illusion of Intimacy — building trust and connection with proven techniques
📚 The Real Cost of Dancing — house fees, tip-outs, and where your money really goes
📚 Rejection — handling “no” with confidence and grace, and how to let off the brakes and allow yourself to be rejected and move on quickly
📚 You — your brand, your style, your quirks, humor, scent, makeup, and vibe — everything that builds your on-stage character
📚 Cultural Differences — how location, laws, and local culture affect club rules, autonomy, and vibe
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Why I Built This
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I love this industry — and I want it to be around for a long time.
It’s given so many women the chance to take control of their money, their lives, and their futures.
This space is about us — not the clubs, not the owners, not the hosts or managers.
The clubs are just tools — places we use to make money and move forward in life.
We’re not here to change them.
We’re here to use them strategically.
You can’t teach an old dog new tricks.
So learn your club, understand its culture, and work it to your advantage.
If a club doesn’t serve you:
💋 Leave
💋 Find one that fits your energy
💋 Go where you feel respected and safe
We’re not stressing over the wrong club.
We’re focused on being in the right one — the one that gives us what we need.
If it doesn’t? Leave.
That’s the power of being a stripper:
💃🏽 You choose where you work
💃🏽 You choose when you work
💃🏽 You have the freedom to walk away and start fresh anytime
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Final Thought
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We’re building something that’s ours — a space where dancers can share knowledge, support each other, and grow together.
Because at the end of the day, it’s always been about us.
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Read This First: Welcome to Locker Room Library
If you’re reading this, welcome to the Locker Room Library—the online version of that corner of the dressing room where dancers actually tell each other the truth.
This space is here to help you make more money, stay safer, and feel less alone in the game of strip‑club work. Read this all the way through so you know how to use it and what to expect.
1. Who this space is for
Locker Room Library is for:
- Current strippers and club workers
- Baby strippers and people seriously considering dancing
- Dancers coming back after a break who want to update their game
It is not for:
- Customers, voyeurs, or people here to “study dancers”
- Managers/owners looking for free training for their staff
- Anyone trying to argue about the morality of stripping
If you’re not a worker or seriously planning to be one, this isn’t your room.
2. What you’ll find inside
This community mixes:
- Real talk from dancers (the stuff you’d see on StripperWeb, r/stripper, and private group chats).
- Structured game plans from stripper‑specific sales and money trainings (like DancerWealth, modern sales blogs, and YouTube education).
- Safety, boundaries, and nervous‑system care from sex‑worker‑aware therapists and resources.
You’ll see:
- Free posts with tips, checklists, and reality checks
- Free mini‑courses on orientation, safety, sales basics, and money
- Deeper paid courses for sales, business, and exit plans
Think of it like a private bookshelf + group chat for dancers.
3. Safety, privacy, and respect (non‑negotiable)
To keep this as safe as possible online, we follow a few core rules, inspired by long‑running dancer forums and sex‑worker safety guides.
- No outing: Don’t post your legal last name, address, or specific identifying info. Don’t share other people’s legal info, ever.
- No club doxxing: You can talk about club conditions, but avoid posting exact addresses + names + specific staff names together in a way that could start drama or retaliation.
- No customer IDs: No full names, license plates, or doxxing. Talk about behavior, not real‑world identity.
- No extras talk: You can discuss safety, boundaries, and pressure around extras, but this is not a place to trade how‑to’s on illegal activities.
- No shaming up or down: No shaming dancers for what they do or don’t do, how much they make, what they charge, what they look like, or where they work.
- Mental health first: If a post is about safety, stalking, or serious distress, respond with care. If you’re in crisis, use local emergency resources or trusted hotlines in addition to posting here.
If you repeatedly break these, your posts can be removed and you can be removed. The goal is to keep this as close to a good locker room as we can—not like the comments under a strip‑club review site.
4. How to get started (your mini checklist)
Do these in order; it will make the whole space make more sense.
- Introduce yourself on this thread (anonymously if you want).Use the template below.
- Read the safety & boundaries post.Look for the post titled “Safety + Boundaries: 10 Things Dancers Tell Each Other, Not Customers” and pick ONE boundary for this week.
- Skim the Baby Stripper basics.Check the “Baby Stripper / Getting Started” posts and free course if you’re new or restarting.
- Bookmark at least 1 money post.Even if you’re not ready for a full plan, pick one money‑related post to come back to after your next shift.
Start small. You don’t need to consume everything in one night.
5. How to use this community
Here’s how to get the most out of Locker Room Library, based on what works in other dancer communities and Skool groups.
- Ask specific questions.Instead of “Help I’m bad at sales,” try “When a customer says ‘maybe later’ after I ask for a dance, what should I say?”
- Share your wins and L’s.If a new line or boundary works (or flops), post it. Other dancers learn a lot from real examples.
- Use posts as homework.Treat certain posts like “tonight’s experiment”—one new line, one new boundary, one small money habit.
- Respect different clubs and cultures.Clubs, cities, and laws vary a lot. What works in one place may not in another. Share your context when you answer (“I’m in the US, nude club, no alcohol,” etc.).
This space gets better every time someone adds real experience to it.
6. Introduce yourself below
Copy–paste this template into a comment, and edit as much as you want. You can stay vague and anonymous—no pressure to share anything that doesn’t feel safe.
Intro template:
- Country/region (example: “US – Southeast”)
- Are you: baby stripper / currently dancing / returning / planning to start?
- Club type (if you want to share: topless, nude, bikinis, VIP‑heavy, etc.)
- One thing you’re struggling with
- One thing you’re good at or proud of (in or out of the club)
- One thing you hope to get from Locker Room Library
Example:
US – Florida. Currently dancing. Mostly topless clubs with VIPs. I struggle with staying confident on slow nights. I’m good at remembering regulars’ details. I want to learn better sales and plan my exit.
Comment your intro below so I can get to know you and point you to the best posts/courses for where you’re at right now.
👑 Welcome to Locker Room Library.
I built this community after 19 years in the industry — because I spent most of those years figuring things out alone, in the dark, between sets.
Nobody handed me a manual. There was no place to ask real questions without judgment, no course on how to actually sell, no honest conversation about money, safety, or what comes after. Just hustle and hope.
This is that place. Finally.
What this community is:
A private, dancer-only space where we share what we know, learn from each other, and build the guide we all wish existed from day one.
You'll find free posts, courses, guides, and real talk on:
- 💰 Sales, VIP rooms, and making more every shift
- 🧠 Customer psychology and what actually drives spending
- 🛡️ Safety, bounds, and protecting yourself on and off the floor
- 💵 Money systems, tracking, and building toward your future
- 💃🏽 Baby stripper basics — everything you were too embarrassed to Google
- 📈 Running your dancing like the business it actually is
- 🌟 Exit planning and what life looks like on the other side
Joining and existing here is always free. Deeper courses are available when you're ready — but you will never be pushed out or paywalled from this community.
Three things before you do anything else:
- Drop an intro in the feed. Tell us where you're at — new dancer, been in it for years, just curious. No pressure on details. Just say hi.
- Check the categories. Each one is labeled — find the topic you need most right now and start there.
- Ask questions. Seriously. There are no stupid questions here. If you were too embarrassed to ask it anywhere else, this is the place.
No customers. No management. No judgment. Just us. 💖
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