If you've ever heard a motivational speaker say this phrase "no one is coming to save you"... that does not mean that you're all alone on an island by yourself, and be only self-reliant.

That's a common thought when we hear this phrase, but is commonly misinterpreted.

The truth is most people don't ever see or know when you're struggling.

So what do we do when we have this feeling of isolation and struggle?

You raise a flag, you admit you need help, you seek coaching or you seek counsel.

The key here... See more