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My Intro — The Man Behind ALIGNMENTribe
I'll go first.
My name is Evan. I'm 51 years old. I live in Palm Beach County, Florida, currently out of an RV, which tells you something about where I am in this chapter.
I'm a dad to two young kids. I co-parent. I show up for every drop-off, every pickup, every moment I'm given, because that time is not guaranteed and I refuse to waste it.
I've been in the mortgage industry for 26 years. I built The Koa River Group. I know how to close deals, read people, and perform under pressure. On paper, I look like a man who has it together. For a while, I didn't.
When my relationship ended, I kept moving. That's what we do. We grind. We work. We tell ourselves we're fine because stopping feels like losing.
But I wasn't fine. I was functional. There's a difference.
I was disconnected from my body. Going through the motions with my kids instead of being present with them. Telling myself the business would sort everything out if I just pushed harder. It didn't.
What sorted things out was deciding, not hoping, not wishing, deciding to rebuild. Systematically. Domain by domain. Day by day.
I started waking up at 3:25 AM. Not because some guru told me to. Because that hour belongs to no one else. It's mine. And I needed something that was mine.
I started fasting. Training. Sitting in silence. Journaling as a strategy session with myself. Cold plunge. Sauna. I rebuilt my relationship with my body.
I started asking harder questions. Who am I without the relationship? What do I actually want? What kind of man do I want my kids to remember?
Slowly, not overnight, slowly, things shifted.
Why I built this.
Because I looked for a place like this and it didn't exist.
Every men's community I found was either therapy-adjacent and soft, or hustle-bro and hollow. Nothing spoke to a man who is capable, driven, spiritual, and broken in the specific way that separation or divorce breaks you.
So I built ALIGNMENTribe.
Not as a business first. As the thing I needed. I figured if I needed it, other men did too. What I'm committed to rebuilding right now.
My hardest domain right now is Money Wellness. I’m rebuilding my relationship with money because I realized that, energetically, I spent most of my life telling myself, “I never have enough.” And somehow, “never enough” kept showing up.
Now I’m locked in and intentionally rebuilding my mortgage practice The Koa River Group (Koa and River are the names of my sons) in a way that can also support and fund ALIGNMENTribe, creating a life where money and abundance can flow. Intentionally. With alignment.
That's mine. Now tell me yours.
Your turn.
Drop your intro in the comments or post it on the feed. Tell us your name, where you are in the transition, and the one domain you're most committed to working on right now.
Don't perform. Don't polish it. Just tell the truth.
That's how we start here.
- Evan Founder, ALIGNMENTribe Dad. Entrepreneur. Man in progress.
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My Intro — The Man Behind ALIGNMENTribe
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