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31 contributions to The Unexpected Shape Café
At Some Point, You Need to Write
New post on my Substack: the case for prioritizing writing at a time when there's so much pressure to center branding and marketing. "This is why most of us became writers in the first place — we need to write. And we write to be read. So yes, our readers are on top of our minds each time we publish. But they read us and not primarily because we engage with them. They read what resonates, what moves, what feels true."
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New comment Feb 22
0 likes • Jan 9
@Monique Gonzalez And of course, I am only seeing this a year later! Thank you for the kind words, Monique, and for being in community with me.
1 like • Feb 22
@Veron Dollwet Hi Veron, I have an IG as well (otherwordy), but I'm not active on that anymore. I'm going to start up the Substack again in late-March to April and write updates there while I focus on writing pieces for submission to journals and magazines. :)
What are you reading?
Right now, I’m reading and rereading Astrid Parker Doesn’t Fail, which is a comfort read for me—a sapphic romance novel. It’s interesting to go outside of my usual genres; I never read romance novels until very recently. At the same time, I’m reading a forthcoming memoir by Morgan Parker. What are you reading, and how are you feeling/thinking about it?
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New comment Feb 2
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@Danne Jobin Oh wow--so maybe Winterson isn't so adept at short fiction, after all. And yet she's jumping into the genre. I did gather one of her first short fiction for Christmas Days was written after a particularly bad heartbreak/break-up, which I think kickstarted her short fiction writing. In retrospect (I'm not sure you'll agree), Lighthousekeeping wasn't as solid as her other novels either. Also, thanks for elaborating more on what you meant re: problematic depiction of trans characters. I took it to mean an incident that happened. I'm now trying to look back at her other books, now that you mention it. It just makes me realize how I take so many things for granted when reading about an identity not my own or an experience I haven't lived, not knowing it might be harmful or problematic. It would be interesting to read Written on the Body and The Passion again which I read when I was still in university...
2 likes • Feb 1
I just finished another translated novel: Andromeda by Therese Bohman (trans by Marlaine Delargy: Swedish to English). I really liked it, but I hesitate in recommending it because I know this book won't have broad appeal. For one thing, nothing is resolved in this book at all--it's more the equivalent of a masterful writer diving into the minds of her two protagonists. For another, the plot was not even a factor, and almost "nothing happens" and as much as this is what made this book good for me, I know it will be what others might not like about it. The divided POV was a compelling (and heartbreaking) way of showing how the same events experienced in the same space at the same time with others could look, feel, and mean so differently to each one.
Writing Tools
What are some of everyone’s favorite writing tools—pens, pencils, programs, things to help focus, etc.? Over the last few years I’ve found myself incredibly fond of .25mm pens because I press so hard on the page (I think it may be a mobility thing), but I also love Evernote. I’m not good at keeping organized, but I find the notes less intimidating than a Word doc.
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New comment Feb 9
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@Sara Habein My everday pen is the Pentel Energel Deluxe RTX in brown. It feels like writing with fountain pen because of the fluid brown ink. :)
0 likes • Jan 21
@Danne Jobin I've learned last year that I have more stamina when typing with a mechanical keyboard. My first one was a Keychron K2 without backlight and I changed the keycaps according to the seasons (really paid off by helping me feel motivated). A couple of months ago, the LoFree mechanical keyboard and matching mouse caught my eye. After a month of researching and watching videos of those who have used it, I gave in. So far, I'm loving it: less clacky than my mechanical keyboard, but still satisfyingly soft touch, and with the shorter finger distance so I don't feel fatigued right away.
The Shape of Your Memoir
Hi all, I’m currently sick with a cold and life is still chaos for my family (my husband has been critically ill in the hospital for seven weeks), but I’m very excited to announce that I’ll be teaching a class called The Shape of Your Memoir this month on January 27, 2025. The Shape of Your Memoir is a transformative 1.5-hour class designed to help you uncover and refine the narrative structure of your memoir and/or essay. Whether you’re just beginning or deep into the drafting process, this class will guide you in identifying and addressing cracks in the foundation of your storytelling. You’ll learn how to move beyond a simple chronological recounting of events and shape your writing into a compelling narrative with a beginning, middle, and end—one that resonates with readers and leaves them deeply satisfied. Through practical insights, real-life examples, and actionable tools, you’ll explore how to create a gentle map for your memoir, allowing the story’s natural shape to emerge as you write. As a bonus, the class includes a one-hour co-working session, giving you the chance to apply what you’ve learned, ask questions, and receive real-time support. Join us to transform your collection of facts and anecdotes into a meaningful, cohesive story that captivates readers from start to finish. Recording and transcript available. http://www.esmewang.com/shape-of-your-memoir x esmé
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2 likes • Jan 12
I hope you feel better soon, esmé! I've been flattened by flu (thankfully not Covid) since Friday myself, but can't resist checking online. I was on mentor mode for the better part of 2024, but my duties are ending in a few days. I'm looking forward to getting back into working more consistently on my own writing again.
Debut Novel Available for Pre-order!
Hi folks, I'm happy to announce that my debut novel Dear Haider is scheduled for publication on June 1, 2024, by Baraka Books! https://www.barakabooks.com/catalogue/dear-haider/ It's one of those stories that came to me fully formed in a flash, as I was recovering from a severe mental health crisis. I was at the time in school, but had a break between undergrad and grad school, and wrote most of the first draft in that two month period. I wasn't fully satisfied with my draft however, and due to the demands of grad school, left the manuscript alone for almost 5 years. Then, a close friend of mine, who works as a medical copywriter, generously offered to edit my manuscript with me. It was the pandemic, so we went on Zoom every Sunday and worked on 2-3 chapters for a few hours at a time, for a period of four months. I will be forever indebted to her. Then, I think I did things quite backwards. Instead of trying agents and big publishers first, which I didn't have confidence to shoot for, I submitted to two small presses. One of them, whose founder happened to be my parents' friend and neighbour, immediately made an offer. And the rest is history. I'm happy to share more about my writing/publishing journey, so if you're interested, let me know and feel free to ask questions!
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Congratulations, Lili! Thank you so much for sharing!
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Neva Talladen
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Neva is a writer and editor in Rockaway Beach, NY. She is working on writing a new body of work and submitting more this year.

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