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Questions? Drop Them Below
As more members continue joining The Nine Stages Method™ community, I just want to remind everyone: If you have questions… drop them in the feed. Whether it’s about: • root causes • cheating patterns • rebuilding trust • triggers • communication • emotional regulation • or recovery in general… Post it. I check the community weekly and answer questions to help guide you through the process. You’re not here to just stop the behavior. You’re here to change the pattern at the source.
1 like • 20d
I’ve been working hard at finding my ‘why’ and everything comes back to instances where I have felt completely ignored or insignificant like I just don’t matter. How do I resolve these emotional barriers when she says they are excuses or lies and will not discuss them. I feel a bit stuck because I really need to resolve these issues as I’ve already relapsed and done it again. I wish I’d found this sooner.
What stage are you working through?
Transformation begins with awareness. I’d love to know where you currently are in your journey. Which stage are you working through right now? • Stage 1: Cause• Stage 2: Emotional Effect• Stage 3: Interpretation• Stage 4: Desire• Stage 5: Action• Stage 6: Justification• Stage 7: Issues & Patterns• Stage 8: Origins• Stage 9: Cure Drop your stage below and share one insight, breakthrough, challenge, or question you’re currently working through. Remember: The goal isn’t to understand why you cheated. The goal is to discover the root causes and permanently change the patterns that made infidelity possible. Let’s discuss.
1 like • 25d
Just starting stage 2
1 like • 23d
@Michael Morentin reached stage 5 today as I’m trying to pace myself but what I’ve seen is really allowing me to understand how I came to do this. Thankyou, I’ll let you know how the rest goes
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Martin Dempster
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46yr old. Dad to 6, step dad to 2.

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Joined Jun 2, 2026
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