Should I stop talking to girls at my college. I’ve been taking so many L’s at my college with these girls and to save my reputation before I get know. as the weird guy I don’t know if I should just stop talking to women. A girl told my friend he looks like a whore and told me I look like I get no bitches. I only have 1 pair of shoes and my clothes are old and my hair hasn’t been done in 5 months because I’ve been struggling to get employment. Some girls called me insecure and weird behind my back, and a girl 2 days ago called me corny. It’s weird because I feel like what others are entertained by is lame. When my friends say a joke or do something it’s deemed funny but when I do it it’s corny. What’s this about?

I’ve been thinking a lot about male iden​tity, and I really bel​ieve it’s time we s​hift our persp​ective. You know, the male peacock is such a fantastic symbol of confid​ence and beauty, and it’s reminding us that men should embrace their uniquene​ss. Imagine teachi​ng boys that they are the "light of the world." It’s a powerful idea! When we instill a sense of self-worth from within, they’re less likely to chase after extern​al validation. Plus, understanding​ femin​inity as a supportive force rather than a do​minant one can help them appreciate women without feeling inferior. It's also vital for men to nurture their inner flame. Like the sun in our solar system, men need to recognize their role in their lives and lead with confid​ence. If we can change our focus to prioritize self-validation over societal expectations, we can truly transform how men perceive themselves. Empowerment really does come from within, and I believe this mindset can lead to richer, more meaningful lives. The focus needs to shift inward rather than outward. If you desire anything meaningful with women, start by looking within. Recognize that you are already great and that your self-worth comes from you. When you cultivate this inner strength and confidence, attracting the women you want becomes a natural result. It’s all about cause and effect.

You’re walking down the street and you see the most gorgeous girl you’ve ever seen. Black hair, slim thick, perfect height wearing tight fitted clothing which eventuates her figure. You walk up to her and hit her with Jaces line “you have the most beautiful resting bitch face I’ve ever seen, what’s your name?” She looks at you dead in the eye and says “none of your business you weirdo”. What do you do next ? a) you walk away b) you show disinterest + compliance test C) you show interest + compliance test D) you show disinterest and walk away E) You keep showing interest until she starts being friendly to you. give an example of what you would say + explain why you chose this over the others

1) Focused on what you have in common The things you "have in common with her" means nothing. As far as attraction goes, It's the things that are opposites about you(things you think about differently or disagree on) that create tension and excitement between you two. Look for opportunities to disagree with her, or at the very least, push back on some of the things she tells you. Tease her, doubt her, show her you don't take her too seriously and make her feel like she's being vetted. Remember to be playful to lighten the mood. 2) Not sexualizing the date Sex and the possibility of sex should always be figuratively put on the table whenever you're in a date. She should know on some level that you find her sexually attractive by the way you speak to her, the jokes and innuendo you use and even the way you look at her. You should talk about the possibility of sex like a type of fun you can't wait to have with her, but only after you're done vetting her to make sure you actually like her. 3) Not qualifying/vetting her Speaking of vetting, this is a common mistake a lot of men make. The reason a woman would buy into your frane, is because you have set a frame to begun with. You need her to feel like she has to fit a certain mold or list of expectations with you, or else, she may never see you again, and that will be communicated subtly by how you ask her open ended questions, what questions you ask her and how thorough your follow-up questions to her previous answers are. 4) Not being mysterious It's a date, not an interrogation. You don't need her to know every single thing about you right now. Keep the juicy details to yourself and let her do the work to find out about those later.

1) A Test of you confidence 2) Back paddling and/or qualifying herself 3) A Test of your competence 4) Ability to teach her something new 5) Increase in sexual tension 6) A heart felt/genuine complement 7) Mutual recognition of attraction