I need help. She's in love with someone else she's wants to leave the house. She told me when everything came out and we decided to forgive each other and move forward and forget about the past. She said without God in the center of this marriage that it wasn't going to work. At first I said okay because I love her and didn't want to lose her, but things changed for me and God has been working in me breaking me down and molding me. But she has hardened her heart she still wants out of the marriage. I don't understand why would you tell me that if God is not in the center it won't work. She's been praying for me to come back to church even put my name on a prayer board. The lord brings me back and is working on me from the inside out and she wants out of the relationship I don't understand why?? She has a calling from God in her life and God has told her 2 times already not to leave the marriage. I've been praying for someone who doesn't know us to be used by God to speak to us to confirm that God is going to restore and redeem this marriage. Because God told her trust the process but also has told her not to leave the marriage. I don't understand. I'm standing on his word and leaning on him that he will restore this marriage i believe he will even if she doesn't. My God never fails.