THE FIRST STEP MOST PEOPLE IGNORE
Good morning ladies! Happy Monday… Every single Monday I “date” my money. Sexy coffee date by the rooftop magnesium pool is my kinda vibe! Here’s what you need to know 👇🏽 Before you enter wealth creation mode, before you buy your first dollar of Bitcoin, before you start calling yourself an investor, there’s a deeper initiation that almost nobody talks about. It’s the relationship you already have with money… because the relationship you have with one thing is the relationship you have with everything. And if you caught my welcome video, you’ll know this used to be my biggest shadow. I used to be the tap-and-go queen. I’d tap my card with this ego-soaked “watch me” energy. Like a tiny rebellion. A flick of the wrist that said, without words, “I can afford this. I’m fine. I’m more than fine.” I’d shout rounds, cover dinners, buy things for people who didn’t earn it, didn’t value it and didn’t even treat me that well. It wasn’t generosity. It was performance.😦 It was the version of me who wanted to feel important. The part of me that was trying to outrun the belief that I wasn’t enough. The girl who thought spending made her powerful, but in reality, it made her avoidant, chaotic and disconnected. I wasn’t leading my money. I was leaking it. And here’s the truth most people never say out loud. Your money behaviours are never just about money. They’re about identity, trauma, unhealed patterns and a deep desire to feel something you don’t yet know how to create from within. So this is where the real investor journey begins. Ask yourself the honest questions I avoided for years. Do you tap and hope for the best. Or do you actually know your numbers. Do you use money to prove something. Or do you use it with intention. Do you hold money with stability. Or does it disappear the moment it arrives because the chaos feels familiar. Do you operate from principles. Or from impulses. Your money mirrors you. Your patterns. Your self-worth. Your regulation. Strategy only matters when the relationship is healed.