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Owned by Hernando

A community for Jiu-Jitsu school owners focused on leadership, mentorship, and building sustainable schools that last.

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Introduce Yourself😀
Welcome — we’re glad you’re here. Please drop a quick intro below: - Your name - Where your school is located - How long you’ve been running it - One thing you’re currently navigating as a leader No need to overthink it — just say hello 🙂
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@Isaac Groisman that’s the way to do it! You’re on the right path maximizing every square footage possible! Please let us know if there’s any specific questions or strategies you need help solving and we will be happy to help you on the call on the 27th! :-)
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@Isaac Groisman these are great questions and I love that you’re already thinking ahead of the game! Will you be able to make it on the call on the 27th? Will be able to go into greater depth 😃
Black Belt Marriage Community Guidelines
This community exists to support Jiu-Jitsu school owners who want to grow — not just in numbers, but in leadership, clarity, and sustainability. Our goal is to make this a place where people feel safe being honest, asking real questions, and learning together. What This Community Is: ✔️ Supportive✔️ Practical✔️ Honest✔️ Rooted in real-world experience✔️ Focused on leadership and long-term growth What Helps This Community Thrive: - Share from your own experience - Ask questions — there are no “dumb” ones here - Offer insight with humility and respect - Keep discussions constructive and encouraging - Respect confidentiality — what’s shared here stays here A Few Simple Boundaries: - Please don’t pitch services, drop links, or DM members without permission - Sharing tools or resources is welcome when it’s genuinely helpful - If you’re unsure whether something fits, feel free to ask How We Approach Leadership Here: We believe leadership is something we practice, not something we posture about. That means: - Taking responsibility - Being open to feedback - Learning from mistakes - Leading with integrity, even under pressure If something gets off track, we’ll step in gently to keep the space healthy and aligned. Thanks for being here and helping make this a community people actually want to stay in.
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Welcome @Alexandre Gerrits
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Welcome @Isaac Groisman !
About Black Belt Marriage
We’re Hernando & Amanda. We’re Jiu-Jitsu black belts, school owners, and mentors who’ve been in the trenches — building, struggling, questioning, adjusting, and growing. Over the years, we’ve had the opportunity to mentor dozens of Jiu-Jitsu school owners, walking alongside them through challenges around leadership, retention, systems, and sustainability. Those conversations — the honest ones — are what ultimately led us to launch this platform. Our own school has grown to over 300 students, but it didn’t happen because we “figured it out” early. We’ve made plenty of mistakes along the way: - Leadership mistakes - Communication breakdowns - System gaps - Burnout seasons - Decisions we’d absolutely do differently now - And that’s exactly why this community exists. Our heart is to help you avoid the mistakes we had to learn the hard way, shorten your learning curve, and build something that’s sustainable — for your school, your team, and your family. This platform isn’t about us talking at you. It's about creating a space for genuine interaction, shared experience, and meaningful contribution from every member here. We believe the best insights often come from the room — not just the front of it. If you’re here to grow as a leader, learn from others, and contribute honestly to a community that understands the weight of running a Jiu-Jitsu school, you’re in the right place. We’re glad you’re here.
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👋 Welcome to Black Belt Marriage
Welcome. You belong here. This community is for Jiu-Jitsu school owners who know deep down that growth isn’t just about ads, funnels, or leads — it’s about leadership. You can buy traffic. You can hire marketers. But if you don’t grow as a leader, students won’t stay, staff won’t last, and burnout will catch you eventually. This space exists to help you: - Lead with clarity instead of chaos - Build a school that doesn’t collapse when you step away - Create culture that retains students and instructors - Grow your business without losing your family, health, or integrity - No hype. No guru nonsense. No “just run more ads” advice. If you’re here, it means you’re serious about becoming the kind of leader your school actually needs. We’re glad you’re here.
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Hernando Thola
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@hernando-thola-4865
2nd Degree BJJ Black belt. BJJ school owner

Active 13h ago
Joined Dec 16, 2025