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Welcome to The Relationship You Deserve Community
(Please take 1 min to read this entire post) This is a community for people who are committed to creating the relationships they truly deserve. For more than a decade, we’ve supported thousands in ✨ Healing past negative relationship patterns, ✨ Learning how to stop arguing and avoid conflict ✨ How to fulfil yours and your partner's needs. And now we’re here to help you do the same. ❤️ It doesn't matter if you are single ❤️❤️ or in a relationship 💕It doesn't matter what kind of relationship you want (It's not gender specfic) Whether you're looking to: ✨ Attract a new partner ✨ Fix your current relationship ✨ Heal your relationship with yourself ✨ Guide others into the Relationship They Deserve... As a new member, get ready for trainings and conversations on topics like: 💫 How To Heal Toxic Patterns 💫 How To Become A Secure Attachment 💫 How To Handle Conflict And Set Boundaries 💫 How to fulfil your and your partner’s needs… ...and so much more! Here's how to get the most out of this community… ✅ STEP #1) Introduce yourself and your relationship Challenge? Share who you are and what your biggest challenge is at the moment in your relationships? ✅ STEP #2) Download " The 3 Problems Stopping You From Getting The Relationship You Deserve & How To Fix IT HERE: Inside, you will find the exact steps that you need to fix your relationship patterns and get the relationship you deserve. Click here to download the guide now ✅ STEP #3) Access Your FREE Relationship Training Here: We work with our community incredibly personally to help them get the relationship they deserve. Start watching the training and taking the first steps to getting the relationship you deserve with our support: https://www.skool.com/the-relationship-you-deserve/classroom We’re super pumped to serve you. As always, no matter what happens Never give up on your dreams.
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Love like a penguin...
If you're struggling to find the right relationship or are on the edge of giving up hope, then this story of how penguins pick their partner is going to give you hope to hang in there… The Antarctica is full of endless white ice and rocks. They all look the same. Yet penguins see it differently. When a penguin searches for their true love, it's no casual choice. They embark on a quest to search for the perfect pebble. They waddle for miles among thousands of stones, spending days and weeks searching for the right pebble. Not any will do. It has to be the right size, shape, and smoothness to present to their chosen one. All stones might look the same to us, yet the penguin sees uniqueness in everyone. This small gesture is a symbol of their commitment that they never break, and it's a reminder that the most meaningful things in life often require patience, dedication, and the willingness to keep searching because the right stone is waiting for you too.
Love like a penguin...
Tired of arguments? (Live training tomorrow!)
If you're sick of frequent arguments with your partner... And want to learn how to stop them in less than 10 minutes? Then don't miss my new live training tomorrow: >>> Click here to register now (it's free) Now... Here's something most people get wrong about relationships... Having differences with your partner is NOT the problem. In fact, those differences are where real growth happens in your relationship. The real problem is this: Most people either get paralysed by these differences (thinking they're somehow "dangerous")... Or they do something far more destructive and completely shut down… They retreat into silence… Avoiding any real discussion about what's bothering them. And beneath that fake calm exterior, the problems just keep festering. That's what ACTUALLY destroys relationships. Because when you stop expressing how you feel, the resentment just keeps building beneath the surface. A couple of days of this? Maybe you can recover. But when it stretches into weeks or months? That's when relationships start breaking down completely. Look, there's nothing wrong with having different viewpoints or occasional arguments. The key is understanding how to repair afterwards without losing your cool. And that's exactly what I'll show you in tomorrow's live training. You'll discover: - Why healthy conflict actually brings couples closer (and reignites passion) - The exact moment most arguments spiral out of control (and how to prevent it)
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@Carolyn Drevets
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I read something this morning that punched me right in the gut. It was an article from a successful writer and broadcaster… She's 63 years old, and she just confessed her deepest regret to the world: She blames feminism for ruining her love life. Because while she became successful in her career, those feminist ideals made her see men as competition rather than partners. "Like so many women of my generation, feminism has ruined my love life," she writes. "Instead of empowering us, those ideals made us believe marriage and domesticity were to be avoided like the plague." Want to know how bad it got? Some guy brought her flowers on a date, and instead of appreciating the gesture, she literally rolled her eyes and asked him why he didn't bring olive oil instead. She admits now that beneath all her sharp comments and intellectual flexing, she was just scared… "I longed to be loved but was too scared to be vulnerable," she writes. "I was using my sharp mind to protect my all-too-soft heart." Ouch. Anyway, here's why I'm sharing this with you: This isn't about the rights or wrongs of feminism. The point is… Ending up alone, bitter, and full of regret isn't some freak accident… It's what happens when you KNOW your relationship patterns are broken... but you keep putting off fixing them. When you keep telling yourself "it'll get better on its own." Or "I'll deal with it later." Or my favorite... "it's not that bad." Until one day you wake up, look in the mirror, and realise "later" turned into never. And "not that bad" turned into “irreparable”. That's exactly why I have a team of coaches who are certified in The Relationship You Deserve training system... Standing by to help you transform your relationship. These aren't just any coaches. They've been personally trained by me… And they're ready to help you get the breakthrough you need. Here's what you get: - Personalised 1-on-1 relationship coaching - Weekly support and accountability - Direct guidance on implementing proven relationship strategies
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LIVE TODAY: Why Therapy Doesn't Fix Your Relationship...
(My new Relationship You Deserve live training is TODAY… register below!) Don’t be alarmed… But traditional therapy could be making your relationship WORSE. I know that might sound harsh. And look, I'm not saying ALL therapy is bad... But after helping hundreds of couples transform their relationships... I've noticed a disturbing pattern. Most people spend YEARS in therapy, talking about the same problems over and over... Only to end up more frustrated and confused than when they started. Here's why... Talking about your problems without having the right frameworks to FIX them… is like trying to build a house without any tools. You might understand WHY the house needs fixing... But you still don't know HOW to actually fix it. And that's exactly what happens in most therapy sessions. You vent. You talk about your feelings. Maybe even gain some "insights"... But nothing actually CHANGES. The same arguments keep happening. The same patterns keep repeating. And you're still walking on eggshells around each other. Want to know the really messed up part? Many therapists actually TAKE SIDES in your relationship... (Which is a HUGE red flag that they don't know what they're doing.) Or worse... They insist that BOTH partners need to attend the sessions. Which is completely backwards. Because here's what nobody tells you... It only takes ONE person to transform a relationship. Think of it like a dance between two people... When one person learns new steps... The other person HAS to adjust their movement. The entire rhythm shifts. New possibilities emerge. The old toxic patterns literally CANNOT continue when just one person changes their approach. But most therapists don't understand this. They're stuck using outdated methods that barely scratch the surface. They don't understand attachment styles... Or how to actually FIX old patterns... Or how to help you communicate your needs in a way your partner will actually HEAR. That's why I developed a completely different approach called Trauma Transformational Coaching (TTC).
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