Are You Datable? Or Do You Need to Get Your Sh*t Together?
How would you answer this question? I know most people think they are extremely datable. And they are, in many ways. And Getting Your sh*t together doesn't mean superficial things like making more money or dressing different or any of that crap. It means showing up as real and whole in your strength as a human. It means knowing who you are and what you want to attract into your life (humans and situations.). Yet most singles are also hiding and protecting. They are coming into the dating field as one aspect of themselves, hiding who they truly are, and either being aggressive and rude or being so passive and accepting they are not able to find the depth of partner they desire. Almost everyone sucks at writing dating profiles, and most men (sorry guys) are not skillful at picking good pictures of themselves to attract a woman. So women throw them aside almost immediately, without even exploring deeper potential. Really reflect on this for a moment. How are you engaging with life and with dating?