Are you putting yourself 1st? I didnātā¦
Last night I went through so much!! It all happened after reading a comment of @Chanie Twersky in this post. I cried ALOT realizing ALOT!! I realized that all my life I was ignoring the wants and needs of my soul and putting others first even if they donāt deserve it⦠If I could help - I always did. It felt like my duty. It felt like if I didnāt help when I can, Iād be a bad person. But some people do not deserve our energy, time and efforts. Reciprocity is a key factor. And, I am not saying to do things for others with an expectation of receiving something in return!! I am saying, that if there is a proven track record of this person consistently treating you like a doormat, set healthy boundaries!!! Protect yourself!!! Takers⦠just take! Itās up to US to lay those boundaries. And something to be said about⦠sometimes we just outgrow friendships. And we got to let go to let in⦠Do you regularly audit your āfriendsā?