This post is ONLY for those currently on the Relationship You Deserve ICF Certified Coach Journey Anything you need, we are here for you. This post is to help you track your journey. Ask any questions that you need help with. Use this same post so it's easier for us to help you. Tasking is the pinned post in the updated each week

A client asked me recently, “If I love my partner, then why am I not happy?” This question struck me as it goes deeper than love alone. You see, even when love is there, it can get meshed with our old wounds from the past. And if those old wounds aren’t healed, then it’s difficult to be who we really want to be in the present. It’s why you can care deeply for someone and still carry loneliness inside. It’s why moments of affection can still feel empty. It’s why being “loved” doesn’t always mean feeling fully seen. Because love alone doesn't erase patterns we've built over years; patterns of keeping quiet, patterns of keeping small, or patterns of choosing peace over honesty. Happiness in a relationship isn't just about loving someone, it's about feeling safe to be fully yourself with them. Without that, love can feel like it’s missing something essential. And if you've spent a lifetime without breaking the old patterns it will mean that even the warmest love can feel like it's missing something. Breaking those patterns isn’t easy. It asks us to risk discomfort, to use our voice when silence feels safer, and to choose truth even when it feels uncertain. But this is the path to bringing your full self into a relationship. Because only when you allow yourself to be fully seen can you experience love that feels whole. Ask yourself if you’re showing up as all of who you are here or are you still living inside the old patterns?

(Please take 1 min to read this entire post) This is a community for people who are committed to creating the relationships they truly deserve. For more than a decade, we’ve supported thousands in ✨ Healing past negative relationship patterns, ✨ Learning how to stop arguing and avoid conflict ✨ How to fulfil yours and your partner's needs. And now we’re here to help you do the same. ❤️ It doesn't matter if you are single ❤️❤️ or in a relationship 💕It doesn't matter what kind of relationship you want (It's not gender specfic) Whether you're looking to: ✨ Attract a new partner ✨ Fix your current relationship ✨ Heal your relationship with yourself ✨ Guide others into the Relationship They Deserve... As a new member, get ready for trainings and conversations on topics like: 💫 How To Heal Toxic Patterns 💫 How To Become A Secure Attachment 💫 How To Handle Conflict And Set Boundaries 💫 How to fulfil your and your partner’s needs… ...and so much more! Here's how to get the most out of this community… ✅ STEP #1) Introduce yourself and your relationship Challenge? Share who you are and what your biggest challenge is at the moment in your relationships? ✅ STEP #2) Download " The 3 Problems Stopping You From Getting The Relationship You Deserve & How To Fix IT HERE: Inside, you will find the exact steps that you need to fix your relationship patterns and get the relationship you deserve. Click here to download the guide now ✅ STEP #3) Access Your FREE Relationship Training Here: We work with our community incredibly personally to help them get the relationship they deserve. Start watching the training and taking the first steps to getting the relationship you deserve with our support: https://www.skool.com/the-relationship-you-deserve/classroom We’re super pumped to serve you. As always, no matter what happens Never give up on your dreams.

If you're sick of frequent arguments with your partner... And want to learn how to stop them in less than 10 minutes? Then don't miss my new live training tomorrow: >>> Click here to register now (it's free) Now... Here's something most people get wrong about relationships... Having differences with your partner is NOT the problem. In fact, those differences are where real growth happens in your relationship. The real problem is this: Most people either get paralysed by these differences (thinking they're somehow "dangerous")... Or they do something far more destructive and completely shut down… They retreat into silence… Avoiding any real discussion about what's bothering them. And beneath that fake calm exterior, the problems just keep festering. That's what ACTUALLY destroys relationships. Because when you stop expressing how you feel, the resentment just keeps building beneath the surface. A couple of days of this? Maybe you can recover. But when it stretches into weeks or months? That's when relationships start breaking down completely. Look, there's nothing wrong with having different viewpoints or occasional arguments. The key is understanding how to repair afterwards without losing your cool. And that's exactly what I'll show you in tomorrow's live training. You'll discover: - Why healthy conflict actually brings couples closer (and reignites passion) - The exact moment most arguments spiral out of control (and how to prevent it)

Feeling invisible in your relationship is one of the most painful experiences you can have. It’s like you’ve faded into the background of your own relationship. Sadly, it’s very common and it’s one of the struggles I hear a lot from clients in my relationship trainings. Here’s what’s interesting… When you become invisible in your relationship, it’s not usually because of a lack of love. It’s not even that your partner doesn’t care or that they aren’t trying… More often than not, most partners do genuinely care; they are committed, and they believe they’re doing everything right. And they’re right… at least on the surface. They are there. But something essential is missing. But being physically present isn’t the same as being emotionally engaged. If you ever feel invisible, it’s because you stop really seeing each other. Somewhere along the way, the spark of truly noticing each other has faded. Invisibility comes from being present without attention and connection. It’s conversations where you nod, but don’t truly listen. It’s the routines where you touch, but don’t actually feel. It’s the habitual hug or kiss that carries no real sentiment. It’s the daily routines that keep you side by side, but not truly connected. This is how invisibility creeps in. It’s not through absence, but through attention that has grown shallow. And it means a person can sit next to the one they love and still feel erased. When this happens, I challenge couples to do something really powerful… And it’s super simple… Sit opposite one another and look into each other’s eyes. Really see each other again. Not just as the parent, the partner, or the provider, but as the whole, complex person sitting across from you. Really look. See the person in front of you. See the person you first fell in love with. When someone feels seen, the smallest gesture, be it a glance, a kind word, a handheld with intention, can bring your relationship back to life. And that shift doesn’t require grand changes.