Waffling Client. Is this rude/disrespectful?
In August I had a client inquiry for our US holiday weekend, Thanksgiving. We had a great discussion, I went through pricing and products and he was on board. He never paid the invoice. But there was a lot of time before the November holiday. Another client popped up in September for the holiday weekend. I informed him via email and text that there was another client interested and he didn’t respond. So I booked the second client. He finally responded 3 weeks later and said that he got the messages, understood the date was gone and requested Dec 5. Same story. I sent the invoice, he never paid, Simone else inquired, I informed him, no response, I booked the new client, and he responded a month later that he understood and is now asking for January. In his email he states that work is busy, “but you know how that is”. Here’s my gut reaction: I shall ghost him! It is Halloween over here so, there is that 🤣🤣🤣. Or to respond from my adult side and instruct him that while many of my clients are busy, and I do understand busy work schedules, I also prefer to work with people that respect me as a professional, do not take me for granted, and communicate in a timely fashion. Seriously, this is very rude and I feel it is disrespectful behavior to another professional. My professional side says to inform him I am not available to be his photographer and leave it at that. If I hear anything back, especially if it he is asking, “why not”, “when can you do it?” Is to ignore him at this point. The location is more than an hour from my home. The invoice reflected a travel fee. But at this point, he’s sending signals that he is an unreliable, rude, and a disrespectful client and will be a problem. I would like to hear your opinions on this toad.