🌱 Growth Tip 1: Schedule “Thinking Time” Like It’s a Meeting Most community owners spend all their time reacting. Replying to posts, answering DMs, fixing problems, posting content. But growth rarely happens during reaction mode. Try blocking 30 minutes a week of pure thinking time where you step away from the community and ask yourself questions like: • What is working really well right now? • What feels messy or confusing for members? • What is one small improvement I could make this week? The best community builders don’t just work in their communities. They regularly step outside and work on them. That small habit of reflection often leads to the tweaks that create massive long-term growth. 🧠 Growth Tip 2: Lead With Behaviour, Not Just Advice Your community watches everything you do, even when you don’t realise it. If you want members to: • be supportive • show up consistently • share openly • help others You need to model that behaviour first. Celebrate members publicly. Encourage small wins. Reply thoughtfully instead of rushing. A community naturally mirrors the energy and standards of its leader. If the leader shows curiosity, kindness, and consistency, the culture grows around it like gravity. When one of us wins, we all win!🙌⭐️

🎼🎵🎶🎵 To celebrate reaching almost 225 ladies ~ we have a Party Playlist started ~ thanks to @Dyanne Joyner ~ it's filling up with so many great songs that we know and love! Have you had a chance to add your favorites to the mix? From Dyanne's post ~ and her Hot Girl Era picture!! What's a party without a good playlist? @Melissa Boster & @Marisa Nunziato are celebrating 225 members in Menopause Skool, and they said it's time to party! What song should be added to the Menopause Playlist? I was listening to U2 recently when we were having conversations in here about not remembering things. More specifically: 📱Thinking we lost our phone while talking on it 👓 Searching for glasses that were on top of our heads 🍅 Having to repeat things over and over out loud from one room to the next so we remember why we were going there! 😊 When I heard " I Still Haven't Found What I'm Looking For" it landed MUCH differently this time. I have a feeling I'll always remember those fun conversations whenever I hear it now. What about you? What song would you add to the Menopause Playlist? Hop over to Menopause Skool and add your favorites! You may find a few ladies you already know ~ and a few songs you haven't thought of in a while!

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Happy Mother’s Day to all the women that eat with one hand, to all the women that carry extra weight everyday, to all the women that sleep 3 hours a night, to all the women that give their bodies, to all the women that understand, to all the women that put their feelings aside, to all the women that give up their social lives, to all the women that know blippi and peppa pig word for word, for all the women that are also nurses/carers/chefs/taxis everyday day. To all the women that make this world run smoothly❤️ Women ARE the stronger gender and mothers are the warriors on this planet. Happy Mother’s Day Niketa, I love you❤️

Its 8:43am A young small boy with a green backpack, bright blue eyes, short blonde hair is running to school hoping that his 3rd grade teacher doesn’t scold him As he approaches the front door to the school he can feel his pulse accelerating This day will the course of his his life forever This morning, he was helping his mom, because dad was at work and mom just gave birth to a beautiful little baby girl. As he runs up the stairs to the second floor and approaches his class he can hear his heart pounding, his cortisol spikes. He opens the door, and then it starts… For 5 minutes in a row he gets yelled at and scolded ferocousiucly As he sits down he can feel his whole body tighten up, his throat, his mind, its all in pain He doesn’t understand what’s going on so he goes and sits down, crying at the back off his class But he can’t Because of that incident for the next 5 years that young boy has a stuttering disorder, He couldn’t speak normally, he couldn’t share his ideas, his feelings His family did support him though, took him to speech doctors, and helped him as much as possible But the boy still stuttered And then one day he discovered something crazy… An article on Neuroscience, He fell in love with it, little did he know that his father was a language professor for 30+ Years and he would learn EVERYTHING he could about language learning and neuroscience And from that day he started his language journey with a goal - Create the best language learning product on the Planet That boy was me Kai And in the past 5 years I have learned more than 7 languages, helped dozens of people become fluent in their target language in 4-6 months And I just finished my Fourth version of my Language learning blueprint V4, I am looking for 2 serious language learners that want to learn Spanish or Russian in 4-6 months to Beta test my V4 for free https://www.skool.com/learn-any-language-2495/about If that sounds like you then Join my community and then DM me