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The Unexpected Shape Café

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7 contributions to The Unexpected Shape Café
Ever think you're not meant to be a writer?
I'm not going to lie team-- Iʻm struggling. I have chosen to write a memoir for my MA thesis and I am a six months away from graduation, and I do not even have a basic draft of my memoir. I keep writing, deleting, writing, having a panic attack about it not being good enough, deleting. Itʻs made me postpone graduation once, and I am scared it will happen a second time. I need to do things differently, which is why Iʻve joined this group. I enjoy the community so much. I figured if anyone could share this kind of anxiety, it might be folks here. Any advice or kinship would be so appreciated (a virtual hug sent out to all).
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Hi Dejan, I appreciate your sharing. Even though I don't have the exact experience, there have been numerous times when I think I'm not good enough, I'm too strange, nobody wants to read my stories ... I hear you. Hang in there. Sending you lots and lots of love .
Prioritise your writing
How do you make sure you get your writing done on a regular basis? Do you block time, and do things tend to get in the way? Do you write in short bursts whenever little pockets of time open up throughout the day? I find it kind of hard. The way everything else can seem more urgent and "I'll just do the writing later" then before you know it a whole month has passed 😅 And it isn't only time-sensitive tasks taking over, there's also fluctuating chronic illness and the many unexpected demands that come with it. What seems to work best for me are hour-long online writing sessions. I can't do early morning ones, and sometimes I can only do half the session, but I like writing with other people. I put on café sounds in the background (from Youtube) and it reminds me of the writing I used to do in cafés before I was so ill. I used to write outside the house a lot but now I can no longer do that it's been so hard. Share your tactics!
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I was doing the exercises in Esmé's Memoir in Miniature workbook. I'd printed it out from the library and worked on it consistently (sitting next to my portable heater, sometimes beginning a session when my body was in pain or feeling very cold and my brain a bit foggy). It was a writing experience that I deeply cherish. Quite beautiful ... It's still sinking in - I'll be able to talk about it more later. Hope everyone has a chance to download / take a look at it. If your device doesn't have the capacity to download it, don't forget about your library. :)
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@Ainna Flaminia Best wishes with your writing :) I found the workbook tremendously helpful. Perhaps one of the reasons why I was able to work on it consistently was that I viewed it as a class/course: I was guided with care by Esmé, and felt no pressure about writing. No pressure to use any of the writing I produced, or to finish one essay in one session. Do take your time - there are pieces I took more than one session to complete; and I felt stuck on my own writing, so I intentionally put more energy on the workbook while working on it. (I should clarify that the pain I felt on those days was bearable.) Hope you can get it printed!
What are you reading?
Right now, I’m reading and rereading Astrid Parker Doesn’t Fail, which is a comfort read for me—a sapphic romance novel. It’s interesting to go outside of my usual genres; I never read romance novels until very recently. At the same time, I’m reading a forthcoming memoir by Morgan Parker. What are you reading, and how are you feeling/thinking about it?
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I'm reading Tove Jansson's Tales from Moominvalley (translated by Thomas Warburton) and relish it. (I love Moomin and Snufkin and many other characters ...) It's light-hearted, warm and full of love - especially delightful when my body is weak.
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@Kimberly Hirsh Ahh ... that's lovely! Sending you & your family .
Hi from Bailey!
Hi all! I’m Bailey, and I’m coming onboard as Esme’s assistant following Dan’s departure. I’m passionate about community and want to help this one continue to thrive and grow. Feel free to reach out at bailey@esmewang.com if you need help with anything. More soon 💫✨
Hi from Bailey!
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Nice to meet you, Bailey!
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Thank you for sharing!
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