My Reinvention Story (And Why I Built This Community)
If youâre over 50 and feeling stuck, tired, or quietly wrestling with burnout⌠I want to tell you a story about the moment everything changed for me. For 28 years, I served in full-time ministryâpastoring, leading an addiction treatment program, walking with people through the darkest and brightest moments of their lives. It was sacred work, and I gave it everything. Then I was promoted to Regional Director. On paper? A dream. In reality? The beginning of my reinvention. One year into the role, I was told Iâd be moved to a new cityâ1,000 miles away. New role. New expectations. No choice. Except my wife was fighting a serious, debilitating disease. My married daughter was too. And uprooting my familyâor walking away from themâwasnât an option. So I offered a compromise: âLet me stay in my city. Iâll take any role that fits my skills. I just wonât abandon my family.â Instead, I got pressure from upper-level executives: âTake the new role for two years. After that, you can choose whatever job you want.â To sweeten the deal, they offered a prestigious 6-week leadership training at the international headquartersâthe kind that usually fast-tracks you to the top. But something in my spirit shifted. I realized this wasnât about opportunity. It was about obedienceâto a system that didnât value my family, my health, or my calling. And one quiet morning, it hit me: If I didnât take control of my future now, Iâd spend the rest of my life waiting for permission to live it. I was scared. Overwhelmed. On the edge of burnout. Afraid of disappointing people. Afraid of failing. Afraid of starting over at 50+ with no roadmap. But I walked away. Not from purposeâbut toward it. Reinvention didnât come easy. It came through trial and error. Through prayer and wrestling. Through rebuilding my confidence one decision at a time. And out of that season, I learned the keys to burnout-proof, faith-driven leadership⌠âŚand I built this community to share them with leaders like you.