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19 contributions to The House of Confidence
Call On Me — A Note from My Heart
A dear friend and business sister sent me this quote: “You grow into the woman your younger self would run to for protection.” Tears. I haven’t said much about this community as a whole, but I want you to know something deep: this community is our older self. The one we prayed for. The one we needed. The one who stands as a beacon when everything else feels dim. The House of Confidence is not a brand. It’s a living, breathing promise — a place for the woman who just needs a heart to sit next to when all she sees is darkness. Confidence isn’t a toy to play with; it’s a foundation. It’s what you believe about yourself when no one is watching. Am I flawed? Yes. Incredible? Also yes. Sad, kind, angry, fierce — all of it lives here. But when someone whispers, “Hey, no matter what you feel… you are magnificent. You are okay. You are alive. You are real. You are seen.”That’s when we stand taller. If you are here, it’s because you belong. You are both correct and wrong, soft and steel, light and shadow. You are the woman others look to when they need the woman you’ve become. I’ve watched women be overlooked, silenced, abused, and dismissed. I’ve seen them betray their own values just to belong. Here, no more. Here, we stand tall in our truth — and we say, “I am the power. I am the villain. I am the hero of my own story. ”And we mean it from the gut. The past matters, yes — but it is not the whole of you. It’s a single brick, a speck of dust that helped form the incredible being you are now. The question is, will you let it bury you… or build you? Here, we build. Together. We demand safety, authenticity, and realness. Not everyone will belong, and that’s okay — we wish them well. But if you are here, I want you to speak. Talk about what hurts, what heals, what’s dripping out of you that needs to be seen. This house was made for that. Let’s create spaces — in our lives, in our businesses — that are warm, welcoming, and unwavering. Let’s build a light that darkness cannot swallow. Let’s build our House of Confidence.
2 likes • Oct 27
Wow! I just have to stop at the quote and allow my spirit to take hold of that!
🏛️ House of Confidence Community Guidelines
A sanctuary for reinvention, rooted in respect, autonomy, and authentic connection. 1. Honor the Room This is a sacred space. Speak with intention, listen with compassion, and show up as your whole self. Every woman here is rewriting her story—your presence matters. - Use inclusive, affirming language - Avoid unsolicited advice; ask before offering support - Celebrate wins, honor struggles, and hold space for nuance 2. Confidentiality is Queen What’s shared here stays here. Vulnerability is a privilege, not a transaction. - Do not screenshot, record, or share content outside the community - Respect each member’s privacy and personal journey 3. Share with Soul Whether posting a breakthrough or a resource, lead with authenticity—not performance. - No spam, self-promotion, or sales pitches - Share content that uplifts, educates, or invites reflection - Credit original creators when sharing external resources 4. Conflict with Grace Disagreements are natural—how we navigate them defines our culture. - Address issues privately when possible - Use “I” statements and avoid blame - Moderators may step in to mediate with fairness and care 5. Rise Together This is a co-created space. Your voice shapes the culture, your engagement fuels the magic. - Participate in monthly themes, challenges, and calls - Support others through comments, reactions, and referrals - Offer feedback through our quarterly community pulse check
2 likes • Oct 26
@Atinuke Ajoke Tech lets discuss
2 likes • Oct 27
@Atinuke Ajoke Tech send me a message here. I will get it quicker than I do on WhatsApp.
You’re the one people come to for answers.
You’re the one people come to for answers. For guidance. For grounding. But what happens when you need to be poured into? Welcome to your mirror. Your catalyst. Your elevation space. This is The House of Confidence—a space for bold, brilliant women to sharpen their edge, raise their voice, and rise into the leaders they were born to be. As a Confidence & Communication Coach, I work with founders and executives to command rooms, make decisive moves, and lead with magnetic presence. And I’ll tell you the truth: Confidence isn’t given. It’s built. It’s shaped through clarity, tested through conversations, and ignited when you dare to speak with power—even before you're “ready.” 🔥 4 Confidence Moves You Can Make Today: 1. Let Go of the Outcome: You can’t control how people will respond—but you can control how boldly you show up. Say the thing. Hit publish. Own your space. 1. Use Your Authentic Voice: Say it the way you say it. Not polished, not performative—powerful. Speak from who you are, not who you think they want. 1. Get Clarity on Your Message: Confidence collapses in the fog. Write your core message in one sentence. Say it out loud. If it doesn't land, tweak it until it does. 1. Speak to Tweak, Not to Impress: You don’t need to have the perfect pitch. You need momentum. Say it now, tweak it later. Confidence grows through action, not waiting. This community is for you if you’re tired of shrinking, spinning, or waiting. Come connect. Post a win. Ask a real question. Share what’s working (and what’s not). Tell us what what skill you are interested in. 📣 Tell me below: 👉 Which of these 4 confidence steps will you commit to this week? 👉 Where do you want to show up bolder? Let’s rise—together. #ConfidenceCoach #WomenWhoLead#CoachingCommunity #CommandTheRoom
3 likes • Oct 6
@Yvette Pinchback, I just find it interesting that when my daughter was in PICU in 2023, I was able to go live everyday that she was in the hospital and now I can’t bring myself to do that. I feel the need to hide for some reason now.
4 likes • Oct 7
@Debbie Fillinich, I am extremely grateful that you are a part of my life and family.
💖 Mercy Challenge 💖
Because confidence isn’t always a roar—sometimes it’s a whisper that says, “I forgive myself and keep going.” Are you ready? 💎 The Challenge: Mercy in motion For the next 30 days, we’re practicing one of the most powerful forms of confidence there is: Self-mercy. This week, I invite you to slow down, soften your edges, and let movement be your medicine. Just 15 minutes a day—no performance, no perfection. 🌿 Here’s How It Works: 1️⃣ Walk for 10 minutes. No phone. No music. No multitasking. Just breathe and move—let your thoughts settle like dust after a terrible (life) storm. 2️⃣ Speak Mercy. Whisper to yourself as you walk: “I release the weight of self judgment. I love who I have become. I have mercy for me. I walk in mercy and confidence. 🌸RELEASE,🌸 post and go on with your day. 3️⃣ Reflect & Share. Come back here and drop a short reflection in the 👉🏼 #MinuteMercyChallenge thread: - What did your walk reveal? - What did you release? - What did you remember about yourself? 💬 Daily Prompts (after 7 days repeat) Use these as journaling sparks or share them in your post: 🌸 Day 1: Where have I been hardest on myself lately? 🌸 Day 2: What would mercy sound like in my own voice? 🌸 Day 3: If I could let one burden drop today, what would it be? 🌸 Day 4: What does confidence look like when it’s gentle? 🌸 Day 5: How does movement shift my mood or self-talk? 🌸 Day 6: What am I proud of, even if it’s small? 🌸 Day 7: How will I carry this softness forward? 👑 Completion Ritual At the end of the 30 days, post your reflection titled: “Mercy Made Me More Confident. ”Share one truth you discovered and one belief or boundary you’re reclaiming—with compassion, not pressure. 💖 Reminder This isn’t a fitness challenge at all its a return-to-self challenge. Confidence isn’t built by doing more—it’s born in the moments you give yourself permission to breathe, release, and rise. I am proud and honored to be hear with you. Living our dreams together
3 likes • Oct 7
@Yvette Pinchback, thank you!
3 likes • Oct 7
Day 2/30 Mercy Challenge Check-In 🎼 Posted today 🎼 Commented today 💯 Reflection: What would mercy sound like in my own voice? Mercy would sound like the sound of crashing waves subsiding just before they make it to the shore and I am standing inside of the wave from the very beginning. 🦋 Commitment: I am going to get up tomorrow and do it all over again OPENLY AND WILLINGLY allowing myself to realize that it doesn't have to be perfect to be done.
🧠 Neuroscience Q&A: Why do we freeze when we speak?
Let’s unpack the brain’s fear response and how ritual rewires it. Ask your questions below—this is a safe space to explore.
2 likes • Oct 5
@Yvette Pinchback I am working on that reframing now.
2 likes • Oct 6
@Eliza Marin, me too. lol
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Former educator turned stay at home mom to a special needs now 14 year old daughter.

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