What do you think the role of the Grandparent is?
I believe the role of grandparents is very important. Parents shape behavior, but grandparents shape identity. In many Indigenous cultures, raising a child is never the job of just one or two people. Grandparents aren’t “helpers.” They are guides, storytellers, and calm anchors in a child’s life. They pass down: Wisdom Values Family and cultural identity And maybe most importantly… they model something many parents are struggling to hold onto in today’s world: 👉 Calm 😌 Because they’re not in the daily rush and pressure, grandparents often bring a steadiness that children feel. And children don’t just listen to calm… They borrow it. They desire it. They pursue it. Often the reason they want to stay in their rooms so much. In our modern world, parents are carrying so much, trying to do everything, be everything. But what if we remembered this: Raising a child was never meant to be done alone. Whether it’s a grandparent, a mentor, or another trusted adult… Children thrive when they are surrounded by regulated, caring adults, not just managed by one overwhelmed one. Let’s bring back the village. We all need one, not just kids. That’s what we have here in Skool… our village. If you had a grandparent or elder who shaped who you are today… please share more.