@Jing Wang in so many aspects of my life I over plan; then comes the Mike Tyson punch to the mouth. I really like what you mentioned here in an attempt to build onto what you said… For those of you out there that are not extremely comfortable at networking events I would add 1) maintain an element of fluidity (focus on others and let the conversation go where they want it to go; focus on giving not getting), 2) crawl, walk, run (start with a small goal, meet X people and be genuinely curious (what was the best investment you ever made?, what is one of the biggest challenges you are trying to solve today?, etc…), 3) analyze (should you have exited conversations earlier?, was your X goal to large/small?, did you target the right people?, etc…). A derivative of the same method could be deployed in online settings and in this way you are slowly building a network of mini-mentors that can lean in when questions arise.